Wear your hair like this... because the girls will like it.
Brooklyn. We Go Hard.
Get me back to Brooklyn... I wanna join the circus. (giggles)
Anyone who knows me, knows I heart my east village... the village in general, but the East Village just contains so many types of areas and has so many kinds of people- the artsy creative types, the skater kids, the really rich but down to earth people, etc etc. But with all that said, these Brooklyn Boys make me wanna cross the bridge.
Anyone who knows me, knows I heart my east village... the village in general, but the East Village just contains so many types of areas and has so many kinds of people- the artsy creative types, the skater kids, the really rich but down to earth people, etc etc. But with all that said, these Brooklyn Boys make me wanna cross the bridge.
The Brooklyn Circus- I've heard about them, seen the pictures, at first I couldn't figure out exactly who or what they are but now I understand. The Brooklyn Circus is a brand that extends itself to a lifestyle, and that's what a true brand is. It is also a store- 3 stores to be exact (Chicago, Brooklyn, and San Francisco) and they carry several brands- adidas, Brixton, Cheap Monday, Goorin, G-Shock, J. Lindeberg, Kangol, Maharishi, Nooka, Nudie Co. Jeans, Onie Denim/Bs United, Phaidon, Rich Yung, Sebago, Staple Design, Tachen, The BKc, Umbro by Kim Jones, and Vael Footwear.
I just spent close to an hour perusing their photos (sigh)- why can't all guys dress like this:) So now Jacinda's favorite lifestyle brands for men- Ralph Lauren, Benjamin Bixby, and the BKc.
top photo by SHEITEN M Photography
the BKc photos via The Brooklyn Circus Blog
I just spent close to an hour perusing their photos (sigh)- why can't all guys dress like this:) So now Jacinda's favorite lifestyle brands for men- Ralph Lauren, Benjamin Bixby, and the BKc.
Photos to experience the The Brooklyn Circus.
(click to enlarge)
for more visit their blog, here. (click to enlarge)
top photo by SHEITEN M Photography
the BKc photos via The Brooklyn Circus Blog
be my husband
little girls need men to look up to too.
this picture makes me think about that.
when you wonder why, "that girl is choosing the wannabe gangster over you- a clear gentleman" well maybe its because she doesnt know what a gentleman looks like. she wasnt taught to prefer the man who treats her right, make sure she makes it in the house safely, insists he pay, and keeps it real-- instead she was only left with those around her who were... less than unexceptional.
be patient
and be a man
that little girls can look up to.
be cool. set standards.
this picture makes me think about that.
when you wonder why, "that girl is choosing the wannabe gangster over you- a clear gentleman" well maybe its because she doesnt know what a gentleman looks like. she wasnt taught to prefer the man who treats her right, make sure she makes it in the house safely, insists he pay, and keeps it real-- instead she was only left with those around her who were... less than unexceptional.
be patient
and be a man
that little girls can look up to.
be cool. set standards.
photo title: TAMIKA (painting of MOS DEF)
photo via SHEITEN M Photography
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budding photographers travel...
when i have the time- i facebook or i peruse it to say the least. i have certain profiles i like to visit more than others simply because they're so much more interesting- they either have the most hilarious status updates, post great articles, write thought-provoken notes, or have cool pictures- and my fb friend coleman collins falls into the "cool pictures" category. we went to high school together, he played bball for virgina tech, played international ball (for germany?) and travels...
his latest collection of photos are cool
(they lost some of quality w/ the upload, click to enlarge)
eurograf in paris or berlin
mexico
mexico
rue de navarin
rue de navarin
(i hearts obama)
bathrooms can be really cool
sometimes
him
linen shirts are a must for men, for the summer months
louis store in paris
i like the white corduroy blazer, or is that seer sucker?
hmm i cant tell, but either way a nice addition to a summer wardrobe
friend and bro, i like their clothes
always try to look effortlessly great when on vaca
(i feel kinda intrusive... i hope he doesnt mind me reposting these... hmmm, maybe i should have asked first, lol, my badd)
(they lost some of quality w/ the upload, click to enlarge)
eurograf in paris or berlin
mexico
mexico
rue de navarin
rue de navarin(i hearts obama)
bathrooms can be really coolsometimes
himlinen shirts are a must for men, for the summer months
louis store in parisi like the white corduroy blazer, or is that seer sucker?
hmm i cant tell, but either way a nice addition to a summer wardrobe
friend and bro, i like their clothesalways try to look effortlessly great when on vaca
(i feel kinda intrusive... i hope he doesnt mind me reposting these... hmmm, maybe i should have asked first, lol, my badd)
The Stylish Progression From Boy To Man
I believe there comes a time in every young man's life- in which he must answer the pinnacle question: "Am I ready to be a man?"
When answering this he must consciously think about his past-- and what the future could possibly bring. He must ask himself "Am I sincerely ready to travel and be on my own like those before me-- (insert names of great men that inspire you, fictional or real)". Ready to tell mom and dad, "It's okay, I can handle it." Ready to face it when he has to cut out Friday nights at Stats or Pink Pony because the insurance on the brand new Honda or perhaps Audi just isn't going to pay for itself.
And just as he asks himself these questions about life's essentials, he must also ask himself the same about another "life category" that actually, even if not admittedly, is as important. Just as there is a time in which his actions must ripen from boyish to manly- as must his style develop from the worlds to his own. It is quite hard to know when that time has come. The decision to buy a house, buy a car, or even to get married comes more naturally to most men, than to decide that "I must now own my look, my own style."
The truth is, most men never own up or develop it. They progress from immaturity to dignified maturation while always missing one element that few are able to acquaint themselves with. Many become great men, distinguished, erudite men, but not quite embodying the maximum meaning of those words because he lacks the complete essence of it.
Those before you who took the important leap did so because they felt it necessary to grow into manhood- at it's entirety. It is a complex situation- to decide what style, what look, will sum you up. To figure out what people will see of you before you mutter the simplest word. As you walk through Whole Foods, figuring out where they stash the Bolthouse smoothies- what one second summary will the girl restocking the oranges think? As the red double decker full of tourist pass you while you're off 42nd and 6th- what will be their impression of the true new yorker as they gaze upon you?
And as I ask, you must ask-- travel deep into the depths of who you are and decide. Do you wish to present an outward image that fully reflects your personality? Or do you wish to be true to yourself while yet knowing that providing those on the outside with a particular reflection will only enhance your current position- be it financial, emotional, or simply artificial (in the many ways it can be)? The choice is yours...
It requires reflection, perhaps a long overdue visit to the men who have come before you- fathers, grandfathers, great uncles. Maybe it takes you finally releasing what will make "her" like you and focusing on what will make "you" like you... while hoping she sticks around for the progression.
For some, this journey, this leap, this step happens naturally- happening between 24-28 (lucky bastards). While for others, because of life's circumstances, late 30s, 40s, and midlife crisis's will induce a band-aid pull effect-- this change will be sudden, very quick and fast. But for you, because you were smart enough to be on this particular site and read this particular article on this day- you have the delighted and highly coveted-- choice.
You can choose to further peruse in a stagnated manhood, silently chuckle because you semi-arrogantly but mainly pridefully have already become a man and developed your own style, or you can begin this journey. Flip the coin, roll the dice, choose from the petals of a flower if you wish... I suggest that maybe, just maybe it is time to become an, Urban Gentleman.
When answering this he must consciously think about his past-- and what the future could possibly bring. He must ask himself "Am I sincerely ready to travel and be on my own like those before me-- (insert names of great men that inspire you, fictional or real)". Ready to tell mom and dad, "It's okay, I can handle it." Ready to face it when he has to cut out Friday nights at Stats or Pink Pony because the insurance on the brand new Honda or perhaps Audi just isn't going to pay for itself.
And just as he asks himself these questions about life's essentials, he must also ask himself the same about another "life category" that actually, even if not admittedly, is as important. Just as there is a time in which his actions must ripen from boyish to manly- as must his style develop from the worlds to his own. It is quite hard to know when that time has come. The decision to buy a house, buy a car, or even to get married comes more naturally to most men, than to decide that "I must now own my look, my own style."
The truth is, most men never own up or develop it. They progress from immaturity to dignified maturation while always missing one element that few are able to acquaint themselves with. Many become great men, distinguished, erudite men, but not quite embodying the maximum meaning of those words because he lacks the complete essence of it.
Those before you who took the important leap did so because they felt it necessary to grow into manhood- at it's entirety. It is a complex situation- to decide what style, what look, will sum you up. To figure out what people will see of you before you mutter the simplest word. As you walk through Whole Foods, figuring out where they stash the Bolthouse smoothies- what one second summary will the girl restocking the oranges think? As the red double decker full of tourist pass you while you're off 42nd and 6th- what will be their impression of the true new yorker as they gaze upon you?
And as I ask, you must ask-- travel deep into the depths of who you are and decide. Do you wish to present an outward image that fully reflects your personality? Or do you wish to be true to yourself while yet knowing that providing those on the outside with a particular reflection will only enhance your current position- be it financial, emotional, or simply artificial (in the many ways it can be)? The choice is yours...
It requires reflection, perhaps a long overdue visit to the men who have come before you- fathers, grandfathers, great uncles. Maybe it takes you finally releasing what will make "her" like you and focusing on what will make "you" like you... while hoping she sticks around for the progression.
For some, this journey, this leap, this step happens naturally- happening between 24-28 (lucky bastards). While for others, because of life's circumstances, late 30s, 40s, and midlife crisis's will induce a band-aid pull effect-- this change will be sudden, very quick and fast. But for you, because you were smart enough to be on this particular site and read this particular article on this day- you have the delighted and highly coveted-- choice.
You can choose to further peruse in a stagnated manhood, silently chuckle because you semi-arrogantly but mainly pridefully have already become a man and developed your own style, or you can begin this journey. Flip the coin, roll the dice, choose from the petals of a flower if you wish... I suggest that maybe, just maybe it is time to become an, Urban Gentleman.
- Urban Gentleman editor
Today, I Introduce, The Urban Gentleman, Part II
Today is a good day. It marks the first day of my newest Urban Gentleman endeavor- The Urban Gent Part II (as some may call it)... In a few weeks it'll be the one year anniversary of The Urban Gentleman, but that is another story for another day...
Now for my first official post, this should be good. lol.
Now for my first official post, this should be good. lol.
what the fck is this? (lol).
Sooooo some may foolishly ask "Jacinda, what's going on? 2 Urban Gent blogs?? What's the cause of all this hoopla?" To that I say- slow your roll buddy, I love the original Urban Gentleman, but sometimes I feel it's a bit... commercial? Idk, it just lacks an element that it originally exhibited and now I feel I'm in too deep to go back, so instead I'll get my other perspective out this way.
Basically this blog is for The Urban Gentleman with a... different type of mind, the one who is a bit more mmmm- open, the one who wants to moreso aimlessly explore the true definition of an Urban Gentleman. Well the other blog gives you that too, but basically this is just another perspective, not many "how tos" or "best places" just feelings, and words, and opinions, and photos, etcetera etcetera- you get me?
I'm too tired to expound further, so anyway I give to you (sorta again) The Urban Gentleman.
Enjoy! Jacinda
Basically this blog is for The Urban Gentleman with a... different type of mind, the one who is a bit more mmmm- open, the one who wants to moreso aimlessly explore the true definition of an Urban Gentleman. Well the other blog gives you that too, but basically this is just another perspective, not many "how tos" or "best places" just feelings, and words, and opinions, and photos, etcetera etcetera- you get me?
I'm too tired to expound further, so anyway I give to you (sorta again) The Urban Gentleman.
Enjoy! Jacinda
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